The funny thing about this lesson is that I learned it from a child. But then again it is as children that we are pure and as age tenders we lose this. I recently lost someone in my life who I thought would be there forever. Well lets start out with me being honest I didn't lose her I chased her away. I don't mean in the physical sense but through my love. I know doesn' t make much sense but I have learned that love is like a doorway into someones heart. I mean that when a person truely loves another they allow that person to become closer then even they expected. I mean you openly invite all the love and good feelings but what happens when there is anger and worst neglect. We forget that words can hurt just as much if not more the a fist. To strike with a fist causes a bruise that heals but a bruise of words is one that can be reopened for years to come. Not only that when you constantly argue you aggrivate and tear deeper into that wound till it is unable to heal out of fear. I mean everytime a negative word is said it hurts till the person becomes calus or unfeeling. Then like an idiot we wonder what on earth could have brought on such a change. Well I know it was me. I learned this lesson some time ago.